If you have to sleep with someone to get a promotion, its not worth it.
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MondayToFriday@lemmy.ca 2 weeks agoPartly psychopathic manipulation, partly sleeping around for career advancement. It’s a tale as old as time.
KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 2 weeks ago
yesman@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
REMEMBER: If you have to have sex with you boss for advancement, that doesn’t make you a slut, that makes them a sex-offender.
“career advancement” is euphemism designed to switch the power dynamic.
fernandofig@reddthat.com 2 weeks ago
To the extent that a boss demanding sex in exchange for career advancement, I agree that makes them sex offenders. But those women still have a choice. They making the wrong choice doesn’t mean they aren’t the victim, but they still should be accountable for their choice.
GBU_28@lemm.ee 2 weeks ago
Agree. Rape and sexual assault nare one thing, and always deplorable. But as presented above, this isn’t that. It’s consensual sex with the hope of advancement.
If the power dynamic is abused for the purposes of attaining that sex, that’s sexual assault.
ArbiterXero@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Here’s the problem….
Because of the power imbalance you can never divorce the two, even if she chased him.
That’s not a moral judgement, just a reality that “perspective “ matters here and if she chased him and then decides 3 years later that he unduly promoted her to try and convince her to have sex with him, BOOM he’s screwed, because she’s got a valid point.
I don’t know the answer, but he’s definitely doing things he shouldn’t.
And let’s be real, he’s likely a VERY shitty dad.
b000rg@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
The power dynamic is ever present. Can a person detained by a law enforcement officer consent to sex with that officer?
ThirdWorldOrder@lemm.ee 2 weeks ago
Oh so I shouldn’t have divorced my ex wife then