Comment on Mean world syndrome has reacted a fever pitch.
I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 6 months ago“as a rule, men are subhuman scum more dangerous to me than wild carnivorous animals”
Lol. No one said that. But the fact that you hear that when women say they feel threatened is very telling of who you are as a person. I hope your wife finds freedom eventually.
AllonzeeLV@lemmy.world 6 months ago
Literally the premise of the question, random man or random bear, who do you feel safer, the opposite of in danger, with?
I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 6 months ago
It’s clear you are choosing not to understand the difference between what you said and what the question said. I can’t save you from your willful ignorance.
AllonzeeLV@lemmy.world 6 months ago
We have a son, why would I ask her a question that heavily infers her infant son is a dangerous monster?
ech@lemm.ee 6 months ago
Well, judging by your levelheadedness here, she obviously has nothing to worry about. /s
I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 6 months ago
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
snooggums@midwest.social 6 months ago
Even if 99% of men were not abusers, the 1% that are also tend to hide their malice and pretend to be decent until alone and the woman is vulnerable. So as women interact with hubdreds or thousands of men over their lifetimes they will come across these abusers or know someone who was abused and that the system blames victims and the fear is not just about percentage chance of a horrible outcome, but that society continues the abuse.
A bear is a known factor, dangerous but never in a deceptive way and society doesn’t tend to blame victims of animal attacks.
Also the percentage of abusers is way higher than 1%. Everyone knows multiple rape and abuse victims, but few people know someone who was mauled by a bear. That is the context for this question.
NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth 6 months ago
That’s just a numbers game, we also have way more interactions with bears, you would have to do a whole breakdown of time/incidents for bears and humans both
snooggums@midwest.social 6 months ago
The point is not the literal number of incidents or ratio, because personal experience impacts that for most people.
Someone who has been in a plane crash don’t care how infrequent they are, the personal experience influences how they estimate the risks.