I just wish I had a way to block your entire instance and all your users and this wouldn’t be a problem. I agree with the accusations and want nothing to do with you and your weird porn shit.
Comment on lemmy.blahaj.zone has defederated from us - Lemmy NSFW
gavi@lemmynsfw.com 11 months ago
Admin from LemmyNSFW here, not the one that posted but an admin nonetheless.
I’m not really down with this being presented as drama as some are trying to, it’s unfortunate the way it played out but overall its their choice to defederate. We actively encourage other instances who forbid pornography to defederate from us. Lemmy.ml, sopuli, etc etc we are totally fine with, we have no malice or hate towards them because thats their choice and their reasons and concerns for doing so are more than legitimate especially with how limited lemmy is right now and the locations that they host their site at. We have open discussions with other instance admins and welcome discussions of their potential concerns, it’s just we didn’t really know what the concerns were beyond “this looks wrong because it looks wrong delete it” which made it extremely frustrating to try to figure out concisely what the problem was so we could address it.
My only issue is it being presented as if we are fine with CSAM, when we aren’t and to be accused of that is extremely serious.
hamid@lemmy.world 11 months ago
gavi@lemmynsfw.com 11 months ago
I know it may seem like empty platitudes, but I want to make it clear for anyone reading this that our entire team agrees with more native ways in lemmy to block our instance as well as ways for instances to limit our content from federating into the all page. The fact that there is a lack of distinction between NSFW and pornographic content is extremely problematic as well, and ideally long term lemmy will receive content warnings like other activitypub platforms.
Porn isn’t for everyone, but people are going to seek it out regardless. A space such as lemmyNSFW needs to exist to allow the people who seek such content out to be able to do so in a safe and controlled environment that focuses consent as a key principle. And in line with having the key princple being consent, making sure people who do not want to see content from our instance are able to block such content with ease is a no brainer.
Our team has also taken a step back and looked to what critiques there are in regard to our instance, as well as preemptively engaging with other instance admins as well. The conversations being had are important, and we are actively figuring out how to best navigate them.
yeather@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
Switch to lemmy.blajah.zone and you’ll never see them again.
marmo7ade@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Let me guess: pornography of legal adults was being considered CSAM? Because 20 year olds make some prudes self-conscious. I got banned from a reddit sub for pointing out that Belle Delphine is 23 years old because a woman wanted to divorce her husband for watcher Belle porn, because she is a child, according to the wife. Yea these people exist.