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• Quitmuch1938@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Have you ever talked to ugly girls, even they don’t want to date ugly guys.

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  • surewhynotlem@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    And you clearly don’t want to date ugly girls. So much so that your prejudice against them. You are a self-fulfilling prophecy, aren’t you?

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    • Quitmuch1938@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I never said I don’t want to date ugly girls

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      • surewhynotlem@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        You didn’t say it, but you act like it. By writing them off and saying they don’t want you, you’re implicitly saying you don’t want them.

        Also, by saying they don’t want you, you’re protecting yourself from being hurt if they turn you down. That’s a self-defense mechanism.

        Reading across your posts, it sounds more and more like you really need to sit down and talk to someone impartial. You seem to have biases that are limiting your ability to be successful.

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