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CascadianGiraffe@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

Very similar position here.

I’ve always felt that it wasn’t anyone’s business but my own and the person I want to touch. I don’t worry about putting myself in a box so I don’t wear a label.

Those that “need” to know are told that I am “independent”. What does that mean to me? It means I decide who I want to fool around with. Sex is more than just tabs and slots.

Although I have found that this answer is unacceptable to nearly everyone, so I can’t say I recommend it.

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0ops@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
I’m with you, (not on dicks but on my approach to sexuality). I’ll gladly decide what kind of person I want to fuck on a case-by-case basis, but it’s really not a big part of my personality. Statistically, I’m straight, but if I sorted everyone in the world by how much I wanted to fuck them, some dudes would find themselves ahead of some girls. There’s not enough of those cases for me to bother dating guys, but you know Image

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xmunk@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

Although I have found that this answer is unacceptable to nearly everyone, so I can’t say I recommend it.

This is just my view but if my nebulous sexual orientation is a turn off for someone then I’m perfectly happy to have them express themselves early so I can block them and move on. I’d rather fuck people I like and who like me.

I know this dates me but I was in serious relationships before gay marriage was legalized in the US… It was an excellent screening topic because the rabid opponents to it couldn’t keep their mouth shut and I’d be able to abort my evening early and not waste time… sort of like Trump hats today - if a waiter is walking me to a table with someone in a Trump hat I’ll just tip them and ask them to let the person know I called the restaurant and couldn’t make it.

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