Comment on College Students Dump Dating Apps as Bumble CEO Steps Down

• Caradoc879@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  “Go out and do things you enjoy and develop actual connections” is bad advice?

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  • 5BC2E7@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    pursuing your goal while acting like you are not pursuing it is counterproductive.

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    • Caradoc879@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Jesus fuck that’s completely misinterpeting what I said. I said DON’T go trying to hook up. Forget that goal entirely. If all you want is to fuck go to the bunny ranch in Reno.

      If you actually want a relationship, a genuine connection, Go to meet FRIENDS. If you’re an actually likeable person people will want to be around you and be with you. But this neckbeard incel attitude is incredibly off-putting, and it makes nobody want to be around you. It’s all self-fulfilling prophecy.

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      • 5BC2E7@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        I say that unless you never go out and have no friends friends and no hobbies that’s going to be a massive waste of time. You should let the other person know about your interest in some way and see if they are interested as well. if the best way to find someone is to do what you’re saying there wouldn’t be a reason for dating apps in the first place.

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