Same here, I have succeeded in wooing partners even on social media, but getting matches on dating apps has been nigh impossible for some reason.
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captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 1 year agoI never had a problem getting women back when I actually left the house. Sophomore year of high school until I got a job at the airport, I practically always had a girlfriend. This included going to ERAU, a campus with 1 female for every 8 males. I had a girlfriend within weeks of arriving on campus.
I disappeared into that work-home to sleep-work thing for a couple years, ended up going back to school at yet another very male dominated aviation school, and I wound up with the only chick in our class.
All the while I have never once gotten a date through a personals site or app; I have a feeling there’s a question or two on the profile that they shadowban you for the wrong answer, such as being 5’7", or I suspect being non-christian. To put this into a time scale for you, it feels weird to call them “dating apps” and not “dating sites” because I gave up on the whole idea before “Mobile First.”
I’m single right now for one very simple reason: I don’t leave the house much.
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captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
I’ve legitimately had better luck at my therapist’s office than online dating.
canni@lemmy.one 1 year ago
You should just leave your height and religion out of your tinder profile man
captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
I gave up on online dating before Tinder was a thing. The dating sites I did try had those as fields.
Also…I hate religion, and that is very important to who I am as a person, and hatred of religion is an important trait I look for in a mate, so.
canni@lemmy.one 1 year ago
So you gave up online dating a decade ago? The Internet has come a long way since then.
I don’t know what you’re looking for, but I would urge you to give it another try if you’re not finding what you want. It’s not magic, but it will simply put you in front of a lot more people than you would otherwise see. If your perfect match is a 1 in 1000 you’ve got way better odds running into them online than via random chance IRL.
captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
- Yes, the internet has come a long way since then. In 2013 the internet was cold and unfeeling, in 2023 the internet is openly hostile and evil.
- I’m not looking for anything. Not anymore. And finding plenty of it.
- My perfect match isn’t on Tinder; she’s married and working for some logistics firm in Texas last I heard. We were together for two short years and it’s my fault I lost her.
- I’ve dated since then and discovered just what caliber of person is on the 21st century market. In related news: I don’t often leave the house anymore. By deliberate choice. 5, To recommend online dating in this thread of all places you must have the reading comprehension of a tube worm.
pinkdrunkenelephants@lemmy.world 1 year ago
We should have a state-run matchmaking system in society.