Comment on Police officer demanded school uniform sex images

• Lmaydev@programming.dev ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Some people are born with an attraction to children that they can’t help.

  Some people are monsters who enjoy the power.

  They are two very different things.

  Natural attraction can be dealt with in therapy but most people won’t come forward about it. As if it gets out their life would be over.

  I can imagine it really sucks for people born that way being lumped together with the actual pieces of shit.

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  • ratman150@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Yeah sorry we’re not doing the “map” thing. Predators are predators.

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    • Lmaydev@programming.dev ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      This is exactly my point. Thanks for illustrating it so clearly.

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      • zaph@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        It’s wild to me that there’s a possibility that we could reduce the number of victims with early intervention but won’t even begin to talk about the idea because bringing it up gets people labeled as predators. “Oh you think some people are born that way and don’t want to hurt anyone and you think they should be helped so that they don’t hurt anyone? You sound like a predator because you’re defending predators.”

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  • unnecessarygoat@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Natural attraction can be dealt with in therapy

    wouldn’t that be conversion therapy?

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    • Lmaydev@programming.dev ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Not really. It’s about learning to manage it.

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• Case@lemmynsfw.com ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  So why not explore the mental domination subset of BDSM with a consenting (and of legal age) partner?

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  • kandoh@reddthat.com ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    You’re right, you’ve really found the flaw in this guys approach.

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