Comment on I wonder why we don't have an NPS score for people?
dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 days agoyeah, I don’t think that makes too much sense - we’re social creatures, we probably should care about what other people think
I admit my insecurities are unhealthy, and the way I’m approaching my insecurities is unhealthy, but I don’t think the right conclusion is to think I’m a goddess or a 11/10, nor to completely ignore everyone’s opinions of me.
And besides, part of the reason I feel insecure is because of the feedback I get from society - I’m pretty sure based on the way people treat me that I’m not attractive, etc. - so in some sense I just want confirmation of what my lived experience is already telling me
surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 days ago
It’s a lesson most people eventually learn. I hope you get there sooner than later.
There are a very small number of objectively attractive people. Maybe 5%. Everything after that is subjective. Which is really good for the rest of us.