Comment on I wonder why we don't have an NPS score for people?
surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 3 days ago
I’m a very insecure woman, … want to know what their “score” is.
You’re an 11/10. A goddess among the plebes. And you need to stop caring about other people’s opinions.
Opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one and most of them stink. Once you realize that other people’s judgement is poor, you’ll be much happier.
dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 days ago
yeah, I don’t think that makes too much sense - we’re social creatures, we probably should care about what other people think
I admit my insecurities are unhealthy, and the way I’m approaching my insecurities is unhealthy, but I don’t think the right conclusion is to think I’m a goddess or a 11/10, nor to completely ignore everyone’s opinions of me.
And besides, part of the reason I feel insecure is because of the feedback I get from society - I’m pretty sure based on the way people treat me that I’m not attractive, etc. - so in some sense I just want confirmation of what my lived experience is already telling me
surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 days ago
It’s a lesson most people eventually learn. I hope you get there sooner than later.
There are a very small number of objectively attractive people. Maybe 5%. Everything after that is subjective. Which is really good for the rest of us.