can we have an option to not get a ride with you specifically? regardless of your gender
Comment on Uber is letting women avoid male drivers and riders in the US
minorkeys@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Women’s fears of men seem like it will naturally encourage gender segregation in society, leasing to privileges and advantages exclusive to women.
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
minorkeys@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
A ride with me is already not an option for you.
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
that’s good news.
paultimate14@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
It’s shocking to me how so many people I know who are woke as fuck and quick to shout down any bigotry are so quick to drop all of their principles to hate men.
Segregation never works, and only serves to foster fear, hatred, and division within society You cannot define what a “woman” is in a way that excluded trans-women without also excluding some cis-women with them Your gender identity is what you say it is. Others should do their best to remember any pronouns or name changes Crime is too complicated and nuanced to be reduced to statistics, which are often used by racists and bigots to justify racist and bigoted policies It’s racist to cross to the other side of the street when a person of color comes walking towards you on the side you currently are on. It’s up to you to “Men” are evil monsters who cannot be trusted and need to be locked away
It baffles me how so many people can have all of these ideas, including the last one, and not see the cognitive dissonance there. It’s succumbing to fear and hatred, the same methods of divisive propaganda that has harmed every other group.
minorkeys@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Because they form their worldview around their own interests, without realizing it. The label of progressive does a lot to assume moral right and inclusiveness which hides biases of self interest. Many of the beleifs people hold were not formed from the effort or reasoning by them but adopted form the authority of progressive ideology. Religion works in much the same way. It takes concerted effort and emotional regulation to build a rational and consistent worldview which is something most people, even progressives, rarely attempt.
unemployedclaquer@sopuli.xyz 3 weeks ago
Since we’re doing unsubstantiated conclusions, we’ll be better off with women in charge. Because, women being human, they are capable of vile self-serving and that works out well for everyone.
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
women wanting equal rights while refusing to commit their fair share of violent crimes is bullshit.
minorkeys@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
You’re free to do so and people are free to disagree if they find your claims engaging. How many comments on the internet do you think are unsubstantiated claims?
unemployedclaquer@sopuli.xyz 3 weeks ago
Not clear because I still don’t know your original position. Your comment was unclear and I apologize for my response, as it did not contribute. For myself, I am opposed to misogyny.
BrilliantantTurd4361@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
Men could quit being disgusting predators…
minorkeys@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
The vast majority of men never were. How few do you need to feel safe? No men ever? Do you even know?
BrilliantantTurd4361@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
How would you know? Ask your friends and father, your siblings and uncles, how many of them have sexually assulted or harassed a woman; do you believe them? Have you ever cat called or leered? Made inappropriate jokes or comments? Are you a rapist?
More than 1/3 of women have been sexually assaulted; that means of your mom and grand mothers one of them has likely been vicitimized by the male bullshit you are trying to claim isnt an issue. Why not ask them? Think you can handle the truth?
minorkeys@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Sexual assault rates of women are not direct indicators of the number of, or gender of, perpetrators. 1/3 of women being victims doesn’t make 1/3 of men perpetrators. That does not follow.
Asking people if they’re a sexual abuser isn’t going to have them saying yes. This is a known barrier in research to getting accurate information of prevalence because people won’t be honest if you ask them if they are an abuser. So asking men I know really isn’t great advice, is it?
Also let me guess, 1/3 of women experience sexual assault of some kind, at some point in their life? That’s a pretty wide net to cast…
Perhaps you can clarify what makes someone a ‘disgusting predator’ so we’re both not he same page?