Comment on Americans: How the hell do you meet new people or get into relationships after college?

• Dearth@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  You don’t need to get shitfaced at a bar. 1 drink per hour is under the legal limit for driving. I find it’s enough to loosen up and if you politely decline further drinks nobody will bother you. And if they’re pushy order a sprite with a twist on the rocks. So it looks like you’re drinking alcohol but really you’re staying sober

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  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Yeah, you do. If you want to be part of the group. Otherwise you are ‘weird’ and they don’t like you.

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• maturelemontree@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  I suppose thats the point of recommendations, they aren’t telling you you have to get into sports.

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• Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  This is my problem with meeting people, only I don’t like to drink (or smoke for that matter). The smell drives me insane so I don’t even like being around people who do it unless I’m getting paid for it.

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  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Yeah it makes it difficult. I used to smoke and honestly it was much easier to meet people that way.

    It’s much easier to socialize when you engage in negative behaviors.

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