The “white moderate” position you’re demonstrating is what MLK warned about: someone who agrees injustice is wrong, but insists on finding neutral framings for it. You’re more devoted to appearing objective than to justice. Trans people do not owe anyone a medicalised justification for their existence on a government document. Searching for a “reasonable” angle on a law built on hate doesn’t make you objective, it makes you an obstacle. Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than outright hostility.