That was too awkwardly casual of everyone. I would’ve at least given you a high five!
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AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
I had a surreal experience once. I was at a busy, casual restaurant at a booth, sitting across from my wife. There was a lady eating alone at a booth a little way behind my wife, and I noticed she looked kind of distressed - looking around like she was trying to catch a waiter - but she seemed to be getting more panicked looking and her face didn’t look right. I got up and went over and said “Are you chocking?” and she looked at me with big eyes and nodded. I asked if she wanted me to try and help and she said yes and stood up. I never learned how to do the Heimlich except from TV shows, but seemed worth a try, so I did what I remembered, and she coughed up a piece of chicken. She looked really embarrassed and said “Thank you.” I said I was glad to help and went back to my seat. No one in the place noticed a thing except for my wife.
ZiggyTheZygote@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 23 hours ago
We’re such weird creatures. That woman was choking to death and she was too shy to ask for help and too embarrassed after to say much of anything.
Marshezezz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 hours ago
Might have been shock on her part. I choked in a restaurant before on a peppermint and my mom saved me with abdominal thrusts but I was really shaken up afterwards from how scary it got and couldn’t really react much for a while afterwards
Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 18 hours ago
Same for the person I performed the heimlich on, I found it odd at the time and her daughter thanked me profusely, it was surreal. I also remember being terrified on hurting her as well as potentially being sued if I had, she was a bigger lady and really short so I had her like fully off the ground squeezing the absolute fuck out of her
What a world where I have to have that thought while trying to help
Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 18 hours ago
I have the exact opposite experience. I was waiting tables at place with a stage and 500 seats, lights are out, I notice a woman is choking and I went for the heimlich, successfully dislodged something as the house lights were brought on and 500 people are staring at us.
AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 17 hours ago
Oh, wow. What did people do, applaud?
Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 17 hours ago
Right after the comedian said “well that was fucking crazy”
I could not have gotten out of that room fast enough
AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 17 hours ago
What did the person you helped say?
fleem@piefed.zeromedia.vip 1 day ago
holy shit! pretty calm, glad it was chill, but you totally saved their life!!
AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 23 hours ago
Funny, when I sat back down, my wife just calmly said, “Did you just save that woman’s life?” It was weird, we just went back to eating and never really talked about it again except when someone would mention the Heimlich and my wife would tell the story.