Comment on Two sides to every story
moistclump@lemmy.world 1 day agoIt’s not all the time but if someone has sob story after sob story after drama after drama I start to think they’re just telling me stories about their victims.
That literally is my ex. Me and all her other exes were apparently violent and abusive, cheaters, bad with money and 100 other things. Like she literally tells her friends I was violent but also begs to get me back because her new boyfriend can’t hold down a job and she doesn’t want to go back to work either.
Everything is protection with her.
As someone who fell prey to someone that way, yep. I try not to be callous, but at a certain point it goes from “you’re part of the problem” and into “you’re incapable of coping with a boring normal situation and so you just cause problems to deal with it”
MIDItheKID@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
“If it smells like shit everywhere you go, check your shoe” sums it up pretty nice