Comment on I just realized there is not really a for "cuddling" in Chinese Languages... probably a reflection of the lack of Public Display of Affection in Chinese Culture...
Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 3 days ago
I dunno, I’ve never cuddled anyone in public.
No I mean like…
I never saw my parents hug… never saw them kiss… not even at home.
Don’t think they even have sex, I suspect the only two times they ever fucked was to procreate… to create my brother and me.
Literally their room is open and I could just walk in, and as a kid I go sleep in their bed a lot.
So no, they didn’t have sex, because if they did, I would’ve had accidentally barged in and saw it.
Maybe this is why they argue a lot lol, lack of sex…
Yeah when my Chinese ex-wife and I moved to France, she was astonished to see my parents hug and kiss.
Is this something you can talk your parents about? They’re kinda the only ones that can answer why
Oh okay, so I’m gonna walk downstairs to the living room and be like: “點解你哋唔 性交？”
💀
Nah its… how do I explain it…
Like there’s this atmosphere, this “vibe” that like… it doesn’t feel as open as a westerm family is.
Like I never even seen any thing remotely resembling a “sex scene” in Chinese tv shows, that just to show you what the culture is like.
It’s gonna be so awkward to ask it lmao.
Be the change you want to see.
Create a new word for it. Spread the love in public.
DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
No I mean like…
I never saw my parents hug… never saw them kiss… not even at home.
Don’t think they even have sex, I suspect the only two times they ever fucked was to procreate… to create my brother and me.
Literally their room is open and I could just walk in, and as a kid I go sleep in their bed a lot.
So no, they didn’t have sex, because if they did, I would’ve had accidentally barged in and saw it.
Maybe this is why they argue a lot lol, lack of sex…
northernlights@lemmy.today 2 days ago
Yeah when my Chinese ex-wife and I moved to France, she was astonished to see my parents hug and kiss.
Gonzako@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Is this something you can talk your parents about? They’re kinda the only ones that can answer why
DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
Oh okay, so I’m gonna walk downstairs to the living room and be like: “點解你哋唔 性交？”
💀
Nah its… how do I explain it…
Like there’s this atmosphere, this “vibe” that like… it doesn’t feel as open as a westerm family is.
Like I never even seen any thing remotely resembling a “sex scene” in Chinese tv shows, that just to show you what the culture is like.
It’s gonna be so awkward to ask it lmao.
JaddedFauceet@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Be the change you want to see.
Create a new word for it. Spread the love in public.