Comment on Finding people who vibe with you is so hard
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 7 hours agoYes, but also sometimes the more you try the worse it gets.
If I don’t try to date, for example, I won’t get a partner. OK, but I also won’t have drinks thrown in my face, be screamed at, and be harassed by stalkers. All of which I have had to deal with in dating and was all so intensely negative I’m not sure the potential positive is worth it.
SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 6 hours ago
My best advice for finding a partner is to first find a best friend that evolves into a partner.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 5 hours ago
that’s not how sex works though.
jaycifer@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
I only read the abstract, but that appears to not be the case, and a majority of relationships start as friendships: pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8892041/