Comment on Finding people who vibe with you is so hard
SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
You have to keep searching. If you don’t try, you won’t get it.
Shit is awkward sometimes but great. You’re right, finding people who are that right amount is difficult. Find them.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 8 hours ago
Yes, but also sometimes the more you try the worse it gets.
If I don’t try to date, for example, I won’t get a partner. OK, but I also won’t have drinks thrown in my face, be screamed at, and be harassed by stalkers. All of which I have had to deal with in dating and was all so intensely negative I’m not sure the potential positive is worth it.
SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 7 hours ago
My best advice for finding a partner is to first find a best friend that evolves into a partner.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 5 hours ago
that’s not how sex works though.
jaycifer@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
I only read the abstract, but that appears to not be the case, and a majority of relationships start as friendships: pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8892041/