Comment on Is there a formalized ban appeal process for the fediverse? Do I just direct message a mod?

• curbstickle@anarchist.nexus ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  You could just not be shitty and it wouldn’t be a problem to post on blahaj at all.

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  • dzsimbo@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Was OP being shitty with their comment?

    I guess birthing is a hot topic or maybe even a dog whistle in the anti-trans community. Just from OP’s deleted comments, I’d say they weren’t hating.

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    • curbstickle@anarchist.nexus ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Was OP being shitty with their comment?

      Yes.

      Whether it was intentional or not. I mentioned elsewhere that there are cis folks who can’t have children. So that comment was shitty to a wider group than just trans folks. Its also pretty common terf stuff.

      It also broke the rules for both the instance and the community.

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      • dzsimbo@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Thanks for the reply. I see I am going against the grain here, so apologies if this comes through as hard-headed, but I still don’t get the violation.

        Was the problem that OP was talking in general about the importance of being able to give birth? It doesn’t seem to diss trans or sterile people, just mentions that it can be important. Or is OP saying it is important, and that’s the problem?

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    • mech@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yes. Blahaj is not a place to debate whether trans women are real women.

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  • SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Or I could be perceived as shitty even if I don't intend to, and get blasted...
    Better safe than sorry.

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• Triumph@fedia.io ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Exactly.

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