Comment on Is there a formalized ban appeal process for the fediverse? Do I just direct message a mod?

• SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Note to self: never comment on blahaj

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  • curbstickle@anarchist.nexus ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    You could just not be shitty and it wouldn’t be a problem to post on blahaj at all.

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    • dzsimbo@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Was OP being shitty with their comment?

      I guess birthing is a hot topic or maybe even a dog whistle in the anti-trans community. Just from OP’s deleted comments, I’d say they weren’t hating.

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      • curbstickle@anarchist.nexus ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Was OP being shitty with their comment?

        Yes.

        Whether it was intentional or not. I mentioned elsewhere that there are cis folks who can’t have children. So that comment was shitty to a wider group than just trans folks. Its also pretty common terf stuff.

        It also broke the rules for both the instance and the community.

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      • mech@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Yes. Blahaj is not a place to debate whether trans women are real women.

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    • SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Or I could be perceived as shitty even if I don't intend to, and get blasted...
      Better safe than sorry.

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  • Triumph@fedia.io ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Exactly.

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• prettybunnys@piefed.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  You can misgender someone there without intending to and be banned for it. Having a nuanced opinion isn’t going to go over well over there.

  My Lemmy account was banned because I use dude as a non-gender term, according to the holy verses then in my attempts to assert I wasn’t applying genitals or identity to anyone I was banned.

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