Comment on How does one learn or start to manage thair life better?

sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

• Bluegrass_Addict@lemmy.ca ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  lol, wow… don’t even know where to begin tbh. I’m just a mess and want to fix my life. don’t know what day it is, don’t use calendars, can’t manage any tasks, low motivation, never know where/what to start with, horrible with money, house is a dumpster… almost literally. I forget/never know when garbage pickup is so I forget to put it out, a lot… so it sits in the house for 2 weeks, unless I forget again. tried making lists of things, forget or lose the lists.

  I’m just horrible at being an adult in general.

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  • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    See a doctor and check if you have adhd or other issues and perhaps get treatment if it turns out you do.

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    • sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      This please. Do you have a Dr. OP?

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  • ryathal@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Do you happen to have ADHD? That sounds like some pretty severe executive disfunction, which is common with ADHD. You might need more than random Internet advice.

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  • DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I’m being described by this comment and I don’t like it 💀

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  • sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Do you have a Dr?

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