Look at this dude… Being happy
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bcgm3@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I had a girl cancel and reschedule our first date shortly before we were supposed to meet up. That date happened, and she confided in me that she’d done that on purpose to gauge my reaction and general demeanor before actually coming out to meet me. I respected that move, and I think I would have been okay with her bringing a friend instead, as long as it was just the once.
Anyway, that was eight years ago, we’re married now.
MashedTech@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Alaknar@sopuli.xyz 3 weeks ago
Quick! Scan his post and comment history to find something to bring him down!!
Surp@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Weakness identified!
banause@feddit.org 3 weeks ago
I bet he misses a lot of MtG sessions. 😏
Estebiu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
Who do you think you are, flexing your relationship like that.
markovs_gun@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
You’re a dumbass for playing along with such insane bullshit but I’m glad it worked out for you.
qarbone@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I don’t think “begrudging women a single test to see if someone is the type to explode over a single inconvenience” is the right hill to stick your flag on.
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 3 weeks ago
Trying to start a relationship by playing games is very much a good place to find red flags.
qarbone@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
It might seem like a game to you but that’s someone’s life.
Do you have an alternative for how they should determine if a potential partner is a danger? Besides hiring a private detective or rolling the dice by finding out after they’re invested?
Dnb@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
Yeah, I’d say it’s a red flag except there are a ton of crazies that this quickly filters for them and keeps them safe from.
So in an ideal world it would be bad, but it makes sense in the one we live in.
banause@feddit.org 3 weeks ago
Mr. Fancy-look-at-me-i’m-married-pants
WelcomeBear@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Nice that it worked out but deception and playing games would be a huge red flag for me. Nothing about that instance in particular, it’s just that I’d always wonder “is this situation for real or another trick?”
OozingPositron@feddit.cl 3 weeks ago
Or does he?