If I remember correctly (it’s been over 16 years), my wife suggested separate checks the first time, and I told her I’d pay this time and she could get the next one if she wanted to go out again.
I think I still ended up paying for the next one (or separate checks), but that wasn’t a cultural norm thing, I just get uncomfortable with other people paying for me.
Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 2 days ago
I call those women… never. Had a girl turn up with a friend, everyone paid for their own drinks. And this was in the early 00s.