Comment on do you use non violent communication at the workplace?

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dream_weasel@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

Thank you for a thoughtful comment, unfortunately I don’t have time right now to read it as carefully as I would like, but I have two short points:

  1. I think you misread the first guy (or one of us did). I understand the statement is not “nonviolent communication is violent” but rather calling distasteful communication “violent communication” both increases the threat posed by words alone and decreases the value of the word “violence” in a physical context. Basically it is better for me to call you an asshole than to punch you in the face, so let’s not equate them with terminology.

  2. It may also be possible that your time in psych and corrections makes you more likely to see sociopathy when you’ve potentially misread or misunderstood which is, itself, potentially harmful to getting a message across.

I will basically never tell someone “seek help for XXX” unless I’m being wildly sarcastic or intentionally combative in either case.

Gotta get my kids but I’ll be around later.

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