Lemmy the only place where well-articulated sentences still get misinterpreted. You can say “as long as you’re 18 you can date whoever you want” and somebody will say “16 and 15 shouldn’t date?” No bitch. Dats a whole new sentence. Wtf is you talkin about.
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otp@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago16 and 15 shouldn’t date?
starman2112@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
DebatableRaccoon@lemmy.ca 3 weeks ago
That’s not what’s being said. From the context of an adult dating some, 15/16 is too young unless the older person is really close to that age (18, 19 at a push and I only think like that because I’m from somewhere with an age of consent of 16. Places with AoC of 18 would obviously be skewed older).
When one of the people is on the younger side, the old rule of thumb (age of older person/2+7) is a best practice for what would be considered inappropriate.
otp@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
I was asking if they thought that people under 18 shouldn’t date.
15 and 16 pair work by the 1/2 + 7 rule, but not by “Anything goes 18+” rule
DebatableRaccoon@lemmy.ca 2 weeks ago
I know what you were asking but your question reads as “So you don’t like waffles?”. No-one was saying anything about anyone under the age of 18, only what minimum age is appropriate for anyone who’s already a legal adult. I think 15-17 are fine dating amongst themselves but that’s an age where parental consent is concerned in a lot of places.
otp@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Oh, interesting! Is parental consent legally required for certain ages to date in some places?
starman2112@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
“Anything goes 18+” doesn’t exclude the possibility of some things going <18. I think the name of this fallacy is like “denying the antecedent” or something nerdy like that