Comment on What age gap is too big of an age gap if someone's in their early 30's?

• Impound4017@sh.itjust.works ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I think the rule breaks down any time before ~21 (always round up). In general, if you’re over 18, don’t date someone under 18. If you’re both under 18 idk but probably don’t exceed a two year age gap.

  If you’re 19-20, get fucked I guess.

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  • Lemminary@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    If you’re 19-20, get fucked I guess.

    But that’s exactly what they want, and it’s the only thing on their mind! D:

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• paultimate14@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  They could be in a similar phase of life. I was still 17 when I started college and had a full-time job. A 20 year old could still be in high school if they were held back. This is kind of the range where you can start counting months or talking about how different school systems have different cutoff dates that can mess with things.

  I would not recommend 20 year olds and 17 year olds date in general. But it’s very possible for two people of those ages to date without being creepy or having problems.

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  • SolidShake@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Yeah I meant like legally. Statutory rape and all.

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    • Rivalarrival@lemmy.today ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Romeo and Juliet laws are fairly common. 24 states allow a 2 to 5 year age difference. AFAIK, federal law allows up to a 4-year age difference.

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      • SolidShake@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        There’s gotta be some stricter “rules”. Because 19 dating 15 would be weeeeiiiiiird. It’s always iffy because the older you get. The larger the gap is acceptable. Like 25-10 is gross AF right. But 55-40 isn’t a huge deal.

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• spankmonkey@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  The high school to college transition makes things complicated for reasons other than just ages.

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  • PlutoniumAcid@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    America-centric. Other countries split the education path in different sections.

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• TribblesBestFriend@startrek.website ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  A 10 year old can only date 12 year old and older. I don’t make the rules

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  • thebustinater@lemmy.zip ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    But the 12 year old can only date 13 year old and older, so the 10 year old is out of luck…

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    • TempermentalAnomaly@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      No dating before 14.

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