Empricorn@feddit.nl 12 hours ago
If he’s “able-bodied”, why are you taking care of him? If you’re able-bodied, why is he financially taking care of you? That’s not judgement btw, but you should both have an answer for it…
Is this a temporary situation while one of you (or ideally both) prepare for the next Big Thing? That could be school, exercise, training, dating, moving, founding, socializing, building, improving, etc. But if you’re not doing that, you’re each holding yourself back. As for what to call it, I don’t know, but that’s my unsolicited advice.
dulcisima@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
Why am I taking care of him? I enjoy it. I love domestic life. When my mom and him divorced, he wanted to hire help - but I said nooo, let me do it. I graduated high school last year and I enjoy this lifestyle. Social life, hobbies, housework… he’s taking care of me because well, firstly he obviously loves me, secondly I’m of great help. I’m having a really great time living like this.
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 hours ago
That’s good that you enjoy it right now. How do you see this working long term?