Comment on I love bpd girls
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world 1 day agoAs a gay man, I had some of the best sex with a man that turned out to be a little cray cray. His place was immaculate but he freaked out on me after one hookup. Granted, I did cancel our second date, but no need to get weird about it. Blocked. Never driving around his place again either.
Cruxifux@feddit.nl 1 day ago
Yeah I dated a girl for 3 years that was amazing sex. Not worth the emotional abuse though.
Also I guess I shouldn’t have prefaced this with just women being like this. I’ve heard the same about men.
rabber@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
was she honest about her issues or did she manipulate you?
Cruxifux@feddit.nl 1 day ago
She was not honest and was not working on it. I was just hopeful it would magically get better. Because I’m stupid and figured it had to if I just kept working on it and being a good boyfriend. But I know now there wasn’t much I could do.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
Bingo. Been there. So much better to be alone. Hard to make any progress in life when you have a partner who is totally unreliable and unsupportive and views everything in life as a threat.