Comment on Socially inept, introverted employees. How do you survive the workplace? Because I’m in dire need of some serious advice.

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A_Wild_Zeus_Chase@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

But you need to understand, they feel the same way about you.

When you ignore them instead of engaging on every topic, they think you are giving them the silent treatment, which is also associated with children

Give you the mature ones you can learn from, you say. Have you engaged those people? People will be more likely to teach you if they like you, and they’ll be more likely to like you if you talk to them.

I’m not saying you’re wrong that it shouldn’t be this way, and I am agreeing with you that a position of like lab/rad tech with less colleagues might be more fitting to your personality.

But I am saying expecting people to care about you, understand you and treat you well, while you make no effort to do the same, is completely naive and hypocritical.

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