Comment on "Tea cup" app - user database leaked today (incl. drivers license & IDs). Daily reminder not to give your ID to online services [THEY DO NOT PROTECT YOUR INFORMATION]

• Randomgal@lemmy.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  If this was an app where men post photos of women without their permission, you would he losing your mind over how gross it is.

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  • glimse@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Women aren’t routinely abusing men with dating apps so yeah I would be weirded out lmao

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    • echodot@feddit.uk ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Jesus you definitely need to get out more.

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    • Anivia@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Women aren’t routinely abusing men with dating apps

      Lmao

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• Sprocketfree@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Strong disagree. Just creating another bully culture.

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  • glimse@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    What’s the alternative to warning strangers about predators?

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    • MrSmith@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Contacting police?

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    • valtia@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      As usual on Lemmy, the answer is just for women to shut up and listen to what the men want

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      • arararagi@ani.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Just goes to show how lost you are in your feminist supremacy bubble, that even leftist spaces like lemmy think this thing is creepy.

        This already happened in my country, Secret was an app got huge while I was finishing high school, an anonymous platform for people to confess private stuff, it rapidly became bully culture and libel central.

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    • Sprocketfree@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I hear that, I just don’t think this is the way to go about it. Digital reputation system that lives on some corporate dataset is just ripe for terrible problems. It’s terrible for everyone’s privacy when we normalize this shit.

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    • ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      What about people who don’t use this app, do they not deserve to be protected, do they deserve to suffer because they didn’t use this app?

      Let’s be real, this app is about gossip, it’s not about protecting women and keeping them safe, it’s literally in the name it’s about “spilling the tea” aka gossip.

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• IcyToes@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  But are they abusers? You sure they ain’t just getting revenge on an ex, making them uhdateable. How do you even validate this information?

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• Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  It’s gossip and toxic. Have you not seen what these places are on Facebook?

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• Gigasser@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I mean. A social database I feel is toxic in of itself. It’s makes forgiveness harder, it makes changing yourself harder. What’s the point in changing if people are gonna look you up in a database like this and perhaps forevermore treat you as if you are like that in the present day, forever. It assumes that humans are unchanging, that once a shitty person always a shitty person.

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