Comment on Playing therapist isn’t fun.

• genevieve@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  To be fair, my area of expertise is the girlfriend experience, so I understand how venting could be part of that. Still, I find the trauma dumping exhausting.

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  • peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨23⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Wait so the “girlfriend experience” is more than just sex?

    God see this is why I never bother to figure out how to find escorts. I don’t have time to figure out how it even works

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    • phdepressed@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      If you think about having a gf, there’s a lot more to the relationship than sex. Nonsexual physical intimacy, much less anything emotional is extremely lacking for the average male not in a relationship.

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      • peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

        Yeah, see, I’m thinking “order 1 gfe to go” isn’t for me.

        I’ve been separated/divorced (for about 2, years) from a relationship where the intimacy was one sided. For 11 years I stayed married cause that was the only girlfriend I had too.

        A GFE sounds like it would be a nightmare for the provider. Especially because I don’t know how I’d handle it emotionally.

        I gotta date real women first. Somehow.

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    • ouRKaoS@lemmy.today ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      That’s the “Escort” part.

      At the high end, escorts have to go to events, dress well, be able to hold an interesting conversation, and essentially be in a relationship for a predetermined amount of time. Sometimes sex isn’t even part of the equation.

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