Second this. My friend group has been using my Matrix server for years.
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CMDR_Horn@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
Setup a private matrix instance
ch00f@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
schwim@piefed.zip 12 hours ago I would love to see the success rate of getting the parents of the child’s friend to set up a matrix client for their child’s one friend that doesn’t use anything they do.
Help your child embrace not needing to be constantly in communication with her friends, to (gasp) use the phone …. or accept and monitor the evil empires’ offerings but no matter what you do, don’t for one second think you’ll get a single family to set up a matrix client for “that one kid”.
Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 13 hours ago
How would you compare setting up your own Matrix server vs an XMPP server?
I was going to recommend XMPP to OP, and I don’t have any experience with setting up Matrix.
stratself@lemdro.id 5 hours ago
Selfhosting both. Continuwuity is more straightforward to set up than ejabberd, mostly because of easier docs, less ports, and less subdomains required. It also comes with most things you need rather than a bunch of toggled-on modules, and I’d say Matrix being HTTP makes it more “conventional” for beginners.
XMPP is significantly more lightweight though, being a message passing protocol rather than state syncing.
Colloidal@programming.dev 13 hours ago
AFAIK, xmpp is easier to maintain and requires less resources.
CMDR_Horn@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
I have no skin in either game, so I couldn’t give you an honest answer here. I only suggested matrix because I believe it would fit the scenario
Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 12 hours ago
Bummer.
Oh well
unitedwithme@lemmy.today 12 hours ago
Anyone ever use FluffyChat? That seems based on Matrix and cute like it’d be kid friendly. I’ll look more into matrix in general! TY
Blaze@piefed.zip 25 minutes ago
I use Fluffychat, it’s a nice app
semperverus@lemmy.world 11 hours ago Hell even the default one is better than everything else out there besides signal and xmpp
possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 6 hours ago
Mayrix is awfully rough around the edges