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- Comment on Anyone know of a FOSS type kids messenger? 36 minutes ago:
Ok, but getting other parents on board so my kid can talk to theirs seems near impossible as they’re non-technical.
- Comment on Anyone know of a FOSS type kids messenger? 7 hours ago:
Yes I have a couple sources. I hate to link a YT video, so I’ll use invidious. Both are great informative videos, but I don’t want to take up your time.
However, check this link first because it might be speculation without hard evidence, while other evidence points to them doing this exact thing but for adults or people 13+ news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20167085
Its at the very end at 10 minutes redirect.invidious.io/watch?v=Yv2Eb_kJous
Also here at 12:25 mark on the video redirect.invidious.io/watch?v=9wknq-Ra-KU
- Comment on Anyone know of a FOSS type kids messenger? 11 hours ago:
Yes! I run Snikket already for my phone app! Cam you run side by side instances? I’ve never really tried. I’ll have to look at how to run a domain that way.
Anyway, I’m trying Matrix (FluffyChat) but being new to Matrix, not sure how to point to my own subdomain for the app to connect.
- Comment on Anyone know of a FOSS type kids messenger? 12 hours ago:
Anyone ever use FluffyChat? That seems based on Matrix and cute like it’d be kid friendly. I’ll look more into matrix in general! TY
- Comment on Anyone know of a FOSS type kids messenger? 12 hours ago:
Just building shadow profiles until they hit 13 to syphon the fuck out of everyone’s data!
I found out any pictures you upload to FB of your kids, each get their own profile, frequency they appear on your orioles, etc. They build massive profiles around these kids just to tie it all together later!
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- Comment on Looking to offload Plex from my gaming PC 1 week ago:
Same! Plex pass <100. I’m on a 12900HX now which does well for all h.265 content. The difference is I’m bare metal vs Docker or VM. I’ve got 3 micro PCs all running various things, a couple pis, etc. I like virtualization, but I like separating stuff out to not over utilize, nor worry about 1 system crash taking it all down.
- Comment on Time to start over...Thoughts on Umbrel OS? 1 week ago:
Never heard of this. I use Yunohost (Y You No Host?) After zimaOS let me down.
- Comment on Looking to offload Plex from my gaming PC 1 week ago:
I’m at close to 150TB, with a lot of my movies being 30GB+. Most are DVDs at full uncompressed, and BD rips in h.265. I’ve also still got my LG BD-ROM that I’ve ripped all my UHD discs on, and those are often over 40GB.
Maybe there was an incompatibility or glitch last time. I’d try it again just in case! Could be a software bug, too. I’ve got an Intel 12900HX in my server. I know AMD are sometimes not as compatible.
- Comment on Looking to offload Plex from my gaming PC 1 week ago:
Can I chime in without sounding anti-Plex? Nothing specifically against it, but they’re kind of going bad. Jellyfin is a lot more private and better to host for data control/privacy.
Don’t get me wrong, Plex of easy to setup, configure, share, etc. with a lot of robust features, but their private equity or venture capitalist money has them selling/sharing data and are cutting out jobs to save money, etc.
JF gives you the freedom Plex once did before its corruption. I’ve been on Plex 12+years and switched about a year ago.
- Comment on Can anyone suggest any self-built Apple TV alternatives I currently use an Ap 1 week ago:
Interesting, never heard of the Vero! I’ve been a Plex and JF use for a long time thinking HW options were limited to big box. Or buy a couple year old device and load LineageOS.
- Comment on [AIT] what is your selfhosted local LLM stack? 2 weeks ago:
Oh, it could be. I don’t use any online or offline AI tools. I’ve played around with Lumo (from Proton) when it first released bc its/was Mistral for privacy, and work tries to get people on board with AI usage (Copilot).
- Comment on [AIT] what is your selfhosted local LLM stack? 2 weeks ago:
Isn’t ollama made by Meta?
- Comment on Is anyone self-hosting their own AI? 3 weeks ago:
Iirc in a documentary, the brain runs on just 13w of electricity, so the more advanced and efficient AI gets, the less power and therefore resources it’ll need. Maybe Johnny’s world is just that advanced lol
- Comment on Which domain registry or specific TLD do you prefer, and why? 3 weeks ago:
I use Porkbun for registrar. Many are at cost with no low price intro to lure you in. I pay $17/yr for my unitedwith.me domain. Free private WHO IS, free SSL through LetsEncrypt, cheap WP hosting.
- Comment on These are the kind of reactions I get when I recommend Anubis to deal with bots at work, what alternatives are there? 4 weeks ago:
A shitload of comments and nobody suggests Alt captcha?
Is this more or less what you’re looking for? MIT license, privacy-first anti-bot. Says free, self hostable, open source, too.
- Comment on How is everyone dealing with Android 17's "Nearby Devices" change? 1 month ago:
My solution is LineageOS as it functions on dozens if not a couple hundred phones. Rocking a One+ currently.
- Comment on Is there a self-hosted Family Link server? 1 month ago:
Nothing really exists.
The likely extreme thing I did was setup ManageEngine’s MDM+ (free for<25 users) and put my sons phone on a “device profile” which locks it down. It’s decently intuitive, but does require a “server” so there’s a bit of setup too. I use YT at work too so for me it was done in 30 minutes.
- Comment on How to physically isolate a camera with OpenWRT, tagged VLANs and Docker 2 months ago:
On older hardware I would agree it can be cumbersome. At work, I’ve swapped everything to Ubiquiti and it’s a couple clicks and I’m there. I liked it so much I did it at home with some caveats. Local account only and blocking anything phoning home.
I’ve got Chinese cameras too, they’re on their own VLAN,ext traffic is blocked simply.
- Comment on How to physically isolate a camera with OpenWRT, tagged VLANs and Docker 2 months ago:
I’m going to go out in a limb and die on it, that: why overcomplicate things with Docker containers?? I didn’t read through your post; The title, to me, doesn’t require it based on what you’re doing. I then read you’re Problem box and confirmed you don’t need NVR on Docker. Seems overkill or really, pointless.
A. Do you absolutely NEED the VLAN for your NVR? Why not just isolate the devices on the network with a bogus DNS record or FW rule blocking via MAC or IP? B. Why run NVR through Docker? I hate devs who only containerize and don’t allow for options. Deal killer, personally. But it it has a native option, why not run that? It’s just extra steps for traffic to pass through which feels like a complicated bottleneck.
Idk, you do you. I’m SURE I’ll get hate for this comment, but sometimes you need to take a steep back and think about what’s necessary vs what’s for fun for learning. I’d you can, hey great! If you can’t, or it breaks, how much time do you now want to spend learning how to troubleshoot?
- Comment on Replacing Cloudflare Tunnel with a Selfhosted Towonel Tunnel 2 months ago:
Why keep DNS on Cloudflare?? Quad9 is where it’s at! Supports DNSSEC, DoT or DoH, QUIC, no log, no BS.
Want it on your phone out and about (and not already using a VPN?) dns.quad9.com/dns-query or use the app.
- Comment on RustDesk now supports unattended remote access on Wayland, including the login screen and multi-monitor setups 2 months ago:
Awesome!! About time. Time to go update stuff!
- Comment on 3 days ago I said I needed a new hobby... 2 months ago:
USS Nodefleet
- Comment on 3 days ago I said I needed a new hobby... 2 months ago:
Did anyone make an instance called starfleet?.. Since, you know… It’s federated?