As little more than just the tip 😘
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axEl7fB5@lemmy.cafe 5 months ago
What does top mean?
ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 months ago
ObviouslyNotBanana@lemmy.world 5 months ago
More than a tap
ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 5 months ago
On top during sex
Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world 5 months ago
Not just gay sex, any sex with power exchange. Can also include completely heterosexual mild BDSM.
ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 5 months ago
Maybe it’s me being old but it was never outside of gay sex when I was young
Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world 5 months ago
From what I’ve gathered, it’s entirely possible that some previously exclusively gay terms are now more generally applied.
PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 5 months ago
For vanilla cis hetero sex it doesn’t apply since the man is always the top and the woman is always the bottom.
PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 5 months ago
top means the one who penetrates the other. What you’re describing is a dom
PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 5 months ago
Hi! Peter here to explain the mene. Since all the other answers are wrong, here’s the actual answer:
Top means the person who penetrates the other (the bottom). The term originates from gay sex, since there it can be very important who is penetrating who. But it can also be applied to other sex (not just homosexual cis men). In the meme above, the implication would be that l Lois uses a strap-on or other kind of dildo to penetrate the delivery driver.
Top often, but not always goes hand-in-hand with domination (dom/sub). Hence the dominatrix-like outfit Lois is putting on.
shalafi@lemmy.world 5 months ago
To dominate sexually.
PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 5 months ago
That is dom. Top means to penetrate the other