Comment on Why is the manosphere on the rise? UN Women sounds the alarm over online misogyny
SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
To paraphrase Jon Lovett, they have “back of the classroom energy” while the left has “front of the classroom energy”.
“Teacher teacher, he said something some people might find offensive! Send him to the principal’s office”
“Thanks for narcing me out, r****d”
“Teacher teacher, he just said the r-word!”
The left just isn’t equipped to deal with the manosphere. Everything the left does just makes the manosphere seem even more cool to the kids.
“The UN is worried about these guys, they must be really badass!”
Malek061@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Wat?
The manosphere is literally a bunch of losers that can’t get laid and are making excuses for it.
Work out. Have a career. Don’t be a asshole. Do that and you can get laid but that’s too hard for some folks.
BarbecueCowboy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 hours ago
That’s kind of the thing, we want to think they’re a bunch of sexless losers, but the basic tenets of advice you get from the manosphere will probably get you laid. Following manosphere advice works because it’s the exact same advice you just laid out but packaged in a more attractive and focused manner. It just happens to be with a side of right wing politics and more than a bit of misogyny.
fodor@lemmy.zip 13 hours ago
Right, listen to that manosophere and you can commit some R or SA … Is that what you mean by “get laid”?
vivalapivo@lemmy.today 16 hours ago
Oh, finally. The sexless/incels is a tiny part of the manosphere. We see them because we want to. You don’t need to respect women in order to get affection, you need it to build love and trust
SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
They’re groomed from a young age by the manosphere to be losers that can’t get laid, so they’ll continuously by self-help books from the manosphere.
They still vote though. And this all happens because to a teenager, the manosphere are the cool guys making fun of the whiny nerds.
Malek061@lemmy.world 22 hours ago
There no way Andrew Tate is cool at a party.
SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca 22 hours ago
Someone watches his shit.
KeenFlame@feddit.nu 12 hours ago
No only in a podcast of his environment with slave girls that are punished if they don’t agree
pulsewidth@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
Kids in my daughters class did a project about ‘an issue that is important to you’. They could pick anything.
Most of the kids talked about interesting and positive fields like environmental protection/space exploitation or some sport they love to participate in. Three of the boys chose to talk about ‘men’s rights’, and according to the teacher who I spoke to about it afterwards they were echoing Andrew Tate shit.
They were 10 years old at the time.
None of their parents are divorced either, so theres no ‘woe story’ from dad in the background to put any framing around this.
However, their parents are all conservative and all let their kids access Youtube with no oversight. So social media and lax/indifferent parenting are very much grooming the next generation into hateful misogynists like Tate.
KeenFlame@feddit.nu 12 hours ago
Fuck you. Losers that can’t be laid. Yes. When they are constantly told to man up and get girls… Where do you think they go? Wtf is wrong with you. You replied to this with exactly the lack of equipment to handle the manosphere they were talking about. Without compassion you are even worse as you ruin your and others chance to fix it. Hateful and completely useless to say these things. You really think the kids think “I’m gonna be an asshole” for no reason? It takes time to be brain washed by the pick up artists. It just speaks to them
ZDL@lazysoci.al 6 hours ago
I think someone is missing what “losers that can’t be laid” actually means.
Short answer: no.
Longer answer: Aw HELL no!
Malek061@lemmy.world 8 hours ago
They are losers for not following positive role models in their lives like coaches, older siblings, and teachers. They follow the youtube algorithm shoved down their throats.
I do feel bad because there is no job market for young men and women that pays anything.
And yes, having having coached little league ball for decades, kids will be assholes for no reason.
Snowclone@lemmy.world 21 hours ago
Yes. Correct. But talk to a boy in Jr. High. They aren’t as smart about this as you might hope.