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Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca â¨6⊠â¨days⊠agoif someone over 35 wants to date you itâs a pedophile
NoâŚwords have definitions for a reason. Pedophiles go after prepubescent children, not 20 year olds who are most certainly postpubes ent. It may not be ânormalâ or viewed highly by people, but itâs not pedophilia.
Also itâs super weird to think 35 and 105 is cool to you, but 35 and 34 if no go territory.
MissJinx@lemmy.world â¨6⊠â¨days⊠ago
a 20 yo is almost a teen, a 35 yo is someone that have lived and itâs not so easy to influence. A 35 with a 105 is weird but we all know both are aware of whats happening, if a 40 is after a 20 itâs because he likes them young and I donât doubt it would go even lower.
los_chill@programming.dev â¨5⊠â¨days⊠ago
Agree. Someone well into adulthood with a preference for dating people right at the border of adolescence is a massive red flag. It may be legal but flying as close to that line as society will allow suggests a more predatory nature.