Honestly your best bet is probably to do some reading first, unfortunately. A lot of Hexbear dialect is that way because it’s tied to concepts that come from books and thinkers we’re broadly familiar with.
If you’re more into video stuff you could try this guy. I think he’s pretty approachable.
Actually if you went into the megathreads and asked most people would probably give you suggestions too. We are fiesty but in my experience we also like to be helpful to people with questions.
dolphin@hexbear.net 1 year ago
Lol that’s fair. We’ve developed a pretty insular culture over the past three years and I can see how it’s hard to decipher.
yuri@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
you guys are also like, just huge dicks without provocation. like all the fucken time. 99% of what i see from hexbear users is either condescension or outright hostility.
Kuori@hexbear.net 1 year ago
honestly it’s a pretty friendly instance all told, we just have p strong feelings about politics and bigotry
and admittedly a lot of us have little patience for the worst among you bc we deal with that shit permeating society at every level on a constant basis
ZodiacSF1969@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
Oh, so you understand how everyone else feels about you then.
yuri@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
hey ditto! i have very little patience for the worst among you, because when i look through comment sections looking for discourse i instead see you fuckers starting the same 5 arguments.
also, coincidentally, i see a lot of folks from marginalized groups specifically complaining about y’all being insensitive and shitty. it’s hard to respect what you say your motives are when your camp is acting like it is.
Egon@hexbear.net 1 year ago
I see a lot of hexbear users be provocative, but I’ve yet to see it without reason. It’s in response to someone else acting in bad faith. When you see someone act rude, take a step back and consider why they are acting rude.
Not to say we don’t have users that are too quick on the draw of the ppb, but your website certainly has cantankerous assholes as well. Every site has.
Staines@hexbear.net 1 year ago
Hexbear - “that’s true, I see how our culture can be hard to decipher” Lemmylib - “you guys are huge dicks without provocation” Hexbear - oh well fuck you then :) Lemmylib - “see, so hostile!”
If we respond to people being needlessly aggro with quip derision it’s “so uncivil!” If we respond to people in good faith by trying to explain our differing views it’s “wow im not going to read that!”
So what should we do?
brain_in_a_box@hexbear.net 1 year ago
You have a very strange idea of “without provocation”