Comment on Are there any Lemmy/Mbin instances by women for women?

• pr0sp3kt@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  What does that even mean? What kind of spaces and how you are supposed to be uncomfortable?

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  • Lemminary@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    It’s the sexist comments, boomer humor, male-centric views, the mansplaining, the chauvinism, the micro-aggressions, lack of empathy from a lack of perspective, the oversimplification without nuance, etc. All that generally makes women uncomfortable and sometimes it’s a bit much. Sometimes you want to forget those exist and focus on what matters to you with like-minded people.

    It’s the same for us gay folks. I know I can’t just bring up whatever gay topic in a straight group where not everyone can relate, offer their first hand experience, or might find it weird because it’s not part of their lives.

    Trying to concentrate similar people to discuss common topics is, at the very worts, a constructive division.

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    • pr0sp3kt@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      You say minimizing, I say maximizing. If you don’t have strong and solid arguments you can’t ask for safe places, what the hell is a safe place to start with…

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      • Lemminary@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        This is not about arguments, bro. Or which ones do you mean? And safe spaces are meant to be non-confrontational. You can disagree, but you do it respectfully, without smug attitudes.

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  • ameancow@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I can’t tell if your question is in good faith or not because of how awkwardly it’s worded, but if you’re asking how women can feel uncomfortable online, you’re obviously not a woman, so enjoy that I guess.

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    • pr0sp3kt@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      I can’t imagine and no one explains. If my words are weird, yours are buzzing my brain also…

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      • ameancow@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Have you ever really talked to women who use online spaces a lot? Like a real conversation, face-to-face or in person. Serious question.

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