I’m already teaching mine to hide his tracks better, to only steal from companies if you have to and can get away with it, not neighbors or your avg person who worked hard for their stuff.
Comment on Parents turn to smartwatches for their children amid global phone screen-time pushback
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Why are parents so desperate to track their kids? Don’t they trust them?
We had a problem with our oldest not coming home on time. So we asked them, and they didn’t have a way to keep track of time. So we got them a cheap Casio and the problem is solved. They love the watch, and independence, and trust.
When we give our kids a phone, it won’t have any restrictions, because it means we trust them. We don’t, so we’re holding off. I’m unwilling to spy on them, so they’ll get a phone when I trust them without filters.
thermal_shock@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
You seem like a great parent! I’m personally leaning towards giving them dumb phones once they have to take public transport to school, for the convenience of them being able to inform me when they miss the bus or want to have lunch at a friend’s. But who knows if or when I’ll even have kids, lol. Maybe things will change in that time.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Yeah, that’s my take as well. When they need one, we’ll start simple. If they do well with that, we’ll expand to a smartphone, again, when they need it (maps and whatnot).
Right now, my kids don’t need it since we take them to/from school (charter school), but the oldest will be changing schools soon to the local public school, so they may need one for after school activities. I’m not giving them something because their friends have it (theirs do), I’ll give them something because they need/earned it.
sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 weeks ago
I used to miss the bus all the time before having a phone. But it didn’t matter; I wasn’t going to be late for anything, I just had to figure out another way home, usually walking which took about 45 min.
If I wanted to go to a friend’s house, I’d usually just go to their house and then call using their phone.
GrumpyDuckling@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Yeah right. I’m going to try every spy trick in the book so they learn some goddamn common sense.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
And they’ll just learn they can’t trust you. So instead of coming to you when they have a problem, they’ll go to someone else, probably online. That sounds way worse than them failing and coming to you for help.
GrumpyDuckling@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
I mean, I’m just going to do it as a dad joke, like set their background as my face so they learn to lock their device.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Lol, ok that would be funny. But if it’s completely under your control, that novelty would wear off quickly and they’d quickly stop trusting you.
Sendpicsofsandwiches@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Good god, that makes too much sense! Away with you, we need to implant tracking devices in our offspring and I’ll hear nothing else on the matter
urandom@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I trust my kids. I don’t trust random weirdos that hang around schools though
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
What are you worried those “random weirdos” are going to do? I also haven’t seen those weirdos that you claim are so ubiquitous, the people who hang around schools are kids who go there.
A “random weirdo” doesn’t want anything to do with your kids. If you look at the stats, the vast majority of crimes against children are from family members or close friends, as in, the people who would be texting your child on their phone/watch.
fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 2 weeks ago
I grew up in Suburban hell but I also don’t recall that being a thing that existed in my time or place, then again everything so isolated I wouldn’t have noticed even if that was a thing. Don’t let corporations continue to destroy our communities by selling fear
urandom@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I also haven’t seen those weirdos that you claim are so ubiquitous, the people who hang around schools are kids who go there.
Well look at you, Mr. Anecdote!
Now I’m worried that you think my kids go to the same school as your kids. Or City. Or Country. Hell, even continent
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
If I was legitimately worried about wierdos hanging around my kids’ school, I’d move them to a different school. Giving them a phone or smart watch won’t fix that problem.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Kids need trust. They don’t mature without room to fuck up or succeed
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Exactly! And they will screw up, so it’s important to let them fail frequently while the stakes are low instead of putting it off until the stakes are high.
fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 2 weeks ago
True. It ends up building resentment and delaying maturity