Comment on Sometimes the advice "just be yourself" is bad advice.
bitcrafter@programming.dev 1 week agoNah, i rather be with an honest piece of shit than someone how “pretends” to be a good person.
On the other hand, someone who “pretends” to be a good person all of the time is essentially indistinguishable from an actual good person.
NONE_dc@lemmy.world 1 week ago
If you pretends “all the time” then i don’t think you’re pretending.
Is like those people with Imposter syndrome who “pretend” to be capable by being actually capable.