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• flicker@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  That “hit the wall” stuff is always hilariously transparent. It’s a self-soothe. “She won’t be worth it in a few years anyway so you’re missing out.”

  I’m 38 and the wall where I stop getting unwanted attention sure never seems to come. Which is disappointing. I’m really looking forward to my crone era.

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  • TheLowestStone@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Your comment very much reminds me of an episode of 30 Rock in which Liz Lemon starts dressing like an old crone and acting crazy on the subway to secure a place to sit.

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    • flicker@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      I may need to watch this show.

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      • Pelicanen@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        Highly recommend it, Tina Fey is an icon. Just beware that you’ll be quoting her character more often than you’ll notice yourself.

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  • Amanduh@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    So the moral of the story is that boobies are good even after they turn 27?

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  • RBWells@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    I have written this before, but I don’t think it actually stops. I do not think it’s even about looks really. Or at least I’m over 50 and still getting catcalled on my way to work. Fully expect to be 90 and have some kid yell “Lookin’ spry, grandma!” at me from a moving car.

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  • figjam@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Have you started collecting toadstool and eye of newt? How is your mad cackle coming along? Are you behind on setting up your 401crone?

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    • flicker@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      My mad cackle is glorious. The rest… can use some work.

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  • Sirence@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    The ones using the wall thing can’t even tell how old a woman is anyways. I got told I’ll hit the wall once I reach 26 and then I will have regrets. I was already well into my 30s at that time.

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• spacecadet@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Is an incel someone who doesn’t white knight for women who couldn’t care less about their own existence? It’s gotten to the point where incel just means “a guy who believes men and women should be equal”. Yeah, I was exaggerating when I was saying 27 but there are tons of women online regretting not taking relationships more seriously when they were in their 30’s.

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  • absentbird@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    It’s gotten to the point where incel just means “a guy who believes men and women should be equal”.

    No, that’s not even remotely true, and it’s not what your previous comment was saying either.

    Incels are essentially misogynists with a sexual fixation. Like classical misogynists tend to be more occupied with women having jobs or holding positions of power, while incels tend to be more upset about women’s sexual habits, but both are preoccupied with hating on women they deem to be misbehaving.

    I think the part of your previous comment that gave the most ‘incel vibes’ was the bit about women begging for attention after ‘hitting the wall’ in their 20s. Maybe you intended it as a comment on women who regretted not taking relationships more seriously in their 30s, but it came off as a sort of fantasy where the women who transgressed your model of how ladies should act get their just desserts.

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  • roscoe@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Lingua franca dude. I’ve never heard “hit the wall” used outside the man-o-sphere. Maybe not exclusively incel, but incel adjacent at least.

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  • Eatspancakes84@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    If men only date women below 30 (or 27 apparently??) for their youthful appearance, what incentive do those women have to take dating seriously? Those men won’t stay anyway. This is the main contradiction in incel rhetoric. If you don’t like to look at women past 30, women shouldn’t date you “seriously “ while in their 20s.

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  • Traegert@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    It’s become a generic insult like re*d or faot was. Or still is for some people. Probably the same crowd. Saying that creepy old dudes are generally mainly interested in younger women and would lose interest as they get older is kinda the point of why they’re creepy old dudes. Not an incel thing to say, just how creepy old dudes work.

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    • Traegert@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Apparently have insulted a lot of creepy old dudes

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• Wolf314159@startrek.website ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  At they end? The whole thing is toxic incel red-pilled hate speech.

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