freeusething
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- Comment on Get this filth out of my sight 2 weeks ago:
Look at my instance and account ;)
- Comment on Get this filth out of my sight 2 weeks ago:
The industry is horribly unethical. Pornhub hosted and made good money on CSAM.
Another aspect is the way things which are pretty intense and should only be happening in negotiated, BDSM contexts are presented as normal parts of sex. Choking is extremely fucking dangerous and really shouldn’t be done by anyone who doesn’t explicitly know what they are doing, but it’s treated as almost part of vanilla sex. Painful anal sex is treated as desirable.
I’ve had a lot of casual sex with men, and many many times these men have done things like spanked or choked me without consent, and I feel like in part that happens because it’s part of the sex script they learned from watching porn.
Also, so much of it seems to be from Eastern European countries where the women might be getting trafficked. You might recall that Andrew Tate’s grift, which he has passed on to others, was essentially forcing women to cam for him while he kept the money.
Like, I think porn can be done ethically. Conceivably, we could have a world where exhibitionists who are having fun are the only ones making porn - maybe if we had UBI and no one had to do it to survive. But that’s not the world we live in.
- Comment on You might be proud but she is disgusted 3 months ago:
I wrote out a guide a while back which people seemed to appreciate.
Just put a little effort in it. If you want your dick to be admired, frame it in a way worth admiring.
- Comment on You might be proud but she is disgusted 3 months ago:
It’s not really that far removed from flashing someone if it’s unsolicited. And - even as a guy who loves dick pics - no one is going to be enticed by a poorly lit picture of your dick held up next to a monster can in your bathroom. (What the hell is with the “over the toilet shot”? So gross.)
- Comment on If sexuality is a spectrum, does that mean one person is the gayest? 4 months ago:
My ELO is 6969
- Comment on Or at least I will when I find another FWB 😅 5 months ago:
This is why I like trains. If I time it right it just keeps going and going and going… one FWB ain’t enough