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- Comment on We really don't want to talk about our problems 1 week ago:
No no no, I’m not telling anyone to stop caring about anything, let alone something as important as climate change. I’m just some idiot on the internet lol, not anyone who should be telling others how to live their lives.
I was just trying to explain that therapy, when it’s good, can help people find peace, let go when they need to, or figure out how to carry the things they care about without being crushed by them.
- Comment on We really don't want to talk about our problems 2 weeks ago:
Totally get where you’re coming from. If you’re staring down the barrel of something massive like trauma, abuse, an enitre system that’s completely fucked and seems way bigger than you and the others fighting it are or ever will be, it feels like no matter how much “self care” you do, the external crap stays the same, right?? It’s fucking maddening.
But idk, to me, therapy (actual, good therapy with a non-shitty therapist) isn’t about giving us power over the root cause, not always anyways because like you said, sometimes it’s impossible. Imo, a lot of times it’s about helping people stop handing more power to “it” (whatever it may be) than “it” already has. We don’t get to choose what happens to us sometimes, but we do get to choose how we respond to it, how we carry it, how we let it affect us, how we pass our pain onto others. It can be a super uncomfortable, yet extremely liberating, paradox. Like, okay, I might not be able to slay the dragon here (sorry, nerd here), but I can sure as hell stop feeding it in whatever way way I was (constant unhealthy thought patterns, my own actions or the lack thereof, etc).
Therapy doesn’t fix the world for sure, but it can help us decide which parts of the suffering are necessary, or which parts we might be unconsciously choosing to carry longer than we need to. Idk, that’s where our power really is, imo.
- Comment on How do I download a blob: video? 2 months ago:
Record your screen while you watch it
- Comment on American doctor receives email from immigration officials telling her to leave the country immediately 2 months ago:
Anderson has been carrying her U.S. passport on her at all times since receiving the email
Christ what is this timeline