Comment on I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces
Lemjukes@lemm.ee 5 weeks agoDing ding ding! The key is actually learning and growing from those bad experiences and bettering yourself as a result. A lot of people seem caught in the loop of searching for someone to make them better instead of looking for an actual partner.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
IME it’s that the more bad experiences they have, the more they demand an idealized greek god of a person as a partner and think anyone who doesn’t measure up to that fantasy. because it’s not their fault, it’s their partners for not ‘measuring up’ to their ‘standards’.