Comment on Are my standards for women to high?
warbond@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Yes. It sounds like you’re talking about the features you’re on the lookout for in a used car, which comes off as creepy.
Comment on Are my standards for women to high?
warbond@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Yes. It sounds like you’re talking about the features you’re on the lookout for in a used car, which comes off as creepy.
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 1 month ago
But how is it creepy to only want a woman that has the same hobbies and interests as me?
warbond@lemmy.world 1 month ago
You asked, I answered. Do you want to know what people think about your standards or not? I agree with your friends. I’m not equipped to help you demystify your feelings towards women, but I think a good place to start is by examining why these things are such deal breakers to you. Is the presence of these qualities the only things you find attractive, regardless of any other factors? Because that’s not how people typically view attractiveness.
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 1 month ago
If you think that my standards for women are too high than that’s fine. We’ll just have to agree to disagree on that.
The reason why these things are a deal breaker to me is because I’m a very introverted man that prefers to play video games and watch anime all day everyday.
I do not like going to clubs, parties, bars because those places are really loud and noisy.
So if a woman likes going to clubs and parties. Than I cannot date her because clubs and parties really drain me too much.
warbond@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Anime and video games to the exclusion of everything else? Are those the only two options? What about reading and movies? Or knitting and podcasts?
If all you do is look for reasons not to date somebody, then that is all you’re going to see.