Comment on What is the actual point of a bra?

• Jikiya@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  You absolutely can ask them that. Noticing it is not the same thing as getting distracted by it. Allowing your focus to be highjacked by the environment is a sign of a weak mind. If you went to work and a coworker told you the shape of your nose was distracting to them, and you need to wear a mask so they can continue to work, that is on the coworker, not you. It is absurd to put someone else in charge of what needs to be done to stop you from being distracted.

  People need to control themselves, no one else has that ability.

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  • 1984@lemmy.today ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Won’t happen :) And disagree about the weak mind as well. Has nothing to do with mind, it’s hormones. Ask teenage boys to have their hands on their cover and exercise their willpower… :)

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• Adderbox76@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  It’s not a choice they are making

  It is if they’re friggin’ adults.

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  • 1984@lemmy.today ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Disagree, and you see the same thing in women when there is an attractive guy around.

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    • Adderbox76@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      No one at any point said not to be attracted to that person. But that doesn’t mean people (men or women) should be drooling rutting animals about it.

      In the adult world that (most of us) should have left behind after our bar-hopping twenties, finding someone attractive can be done without eye-fucking them like a creep.

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      • 1984@lemmy.today ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I can also play that game. Not at any point did I say to be drooling rotting animals. You are the one using those word words along with words like eye-fucking…

        I think you have a twisted view of sexuality my man.

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