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• some_random_nick@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  An unwanted/planned child is a rapist? You can’t be serious.

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  • MindTraveller@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    It’s not a child. A child is defined as having been born. It’s a fetus. A parasite.

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  • Rivalarrival@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    If it is a person, then yes, it could be considered a rapist, and subject to forcible removal at the mother’s will. If it is not a person, it is merely an unexpected growth, and subject to forcible removal at the mother’s will.

    The ridiculousness of the former scenario tells us that the fetus is not a person, and is incapable of committing “rape”.

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  • S_204@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Come on. Have you seen what’s going on on college campuses right now? I’ve heard far less serious things being said with absolute sincerity.

    We’re reaching the point where victimhood is the only trait people aspire to achieve.

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• Demdaru@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I love that bait, hahah. Rape aside, woman had to take into account possibility of a child when she had sex. Same with her partner. Sorry, but that’s the biological reason sex even exists, and denying it because we found good methods of contraception does nothing because even these methods are being advertised as not 100% effective.

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  • Senal@programming.dev ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    That “rape aside” is doing a lot of heavy lifitng there and conveniently sweeps away the need to actually address anything that isn’t the “had sex, your fault” narrative you seem to be espousing here.

    Especially given that there is little to no effort being given to exemptions of any kind.

    Nobody is denying that sex is how babies are (usually) made, i mean apart from the “this book is the literal truth” christians i suppose.

    or you’re trolling, in which case, congratulations…i guess.

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    • Demdaru@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I slightly do troll - in a sense of presenting fully opposite view to the one provided.

      And the"rape aside" is meant to do the heavy lifting. It’s there as a heavy notion that shit happens. Forced sex, rapid health declination, getting too drunk to think logicaly (…although from what I know, then it’s also rape, no? Or I misunderstood), or simply finding out your body can’t handle birth. These are all valid reasons for abortion.

      But by all means, consequence of sex is having a child, and people - this is my own fully subjective opinion - seem to be bewildered by this notion. By all means, people always should take into account that sex ends with children without precautions, and still may end with children with, and be responsible about it. Not call a consequence of their actions a parasite.

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      • MenacingPerson@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Not call a consequence of their actions a parasite.

        I ate tapeworm larvae for science and got tapeworms in my intestine. So it’s not a parasite?

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  • Rivalarrival@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Ok. So she has been raped.

    Is she obligated to report that rape? Is she obligated to accuse someone? Is she obligated to prove she has been raped? Is she obligated to cooperate with an investigation into her rape? Is she obligated to even claim she had been raped?

    The answers are “No, No, No, No, and No”. Since she is not and should never be under any sort of obligation to do any of these things, you don’t know and can’t know that she was raped. Yet, by your argument, as a victim, she is entitled to an abortion.

    With your philosophy, you could presume that any particular woman seeking an abortion has been raped, and is simply not reporting it for whatever reason. She is entitled to her abortion.

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    • Demdaru@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      1. I didn’t aim to proclaim “women need to admit to rape to get healthcare”. I countered instead calling fetus a rapist - an actively and wholly out of control of a woman agressor. No, unethical situations aside, both parties knew what consequences are there. No use getting pissed at someone/thing because of your own stupidity.

      2. I put rape aside because it wasn’t aimed at discussing this part in depth but…if you want, why not. First of all, women, as you wrote, are not obligated to admit to being a victim of rape. And yes, in the way I described it above, it’s suggested that rape victims are entitled to abortion. However, the mental jump to then switching the logic around that any woman looking for abortion was raped is simply illogical in the same manner that saying only alcoholics buy alcohol is. In the dystopian version of the world where abortion is fully illegal except for unexpected and unethical situations like rape, I think that yes, women would have to admit to being a victim to receive medical help. There’s simply hardly any other way.

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      • Rivalarrival@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        However, the mental jump to then switching the logic around that any woman looking for abortion was raped is simply illogical

        I agree, but I didn’t say that they were raped. I said you could presume they were raped. You are perfectly capable of making and choosing to make that presumption.

        I think that yes, women would have to admit to being a victim to receive medical help. There’s simply hardly any other way.

        There most certainly is another way. You are under no obligation to ask. You don’t need to create an obligation for her to tell. Even if you did ask and she did tell, she could have some reason for lying and claiming it was consensual when it actually wasn’t, so you can ignore any answer she gives.

        The “other way” is to allow you to presume that she meets whatever criteria you believe necessary to justify and permit abortion. If you need to believe she was raped, presume she was raped. If you need her life to be in danger, go right ahead and presume her life is in danger.

        One last point: You are under zero obligation to presume that her sexual encounters were consensual. If you choose to presume consent, I’d like to know your rationale for doing so. And I’d like to know how fairly you will be treating a rape victim seeking an abortion if you presume consent that was not granted.

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