Comment on How come liberals dont hate conservatives the way conservatives hate liberals

• IzzyJ@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  I hate them because i have to constantly be afraid of them.

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  • jbrains@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I can both understand and relate to being afraid of them. As you wrote, they do real damage and they seem intent on doing more and they seem to feel it’s their mission to do so. From what I can tell, they have been programmed to see the very concept of progressive thinking as evil. Fearing them seems sensible, because being aware of the threat makes it easier to defend against or protect oneself from.

    But how exactly does it improve your life to hate them?

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    • IzzyJ@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      It doesn’t improve it. You could argue it makes it worse since I often face social rejection from the left for it…for some inexplicable reason. But I don’t simply choose to hate or not hate something, the same way one does not simply chose their sexuality or gender or race or emotions.

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      • jbrains@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        I relate to your position. You are wrong. You absolutely do choose to hate or not hate. This lies entirely within your control.

        I used to have the impulse to hate them, but I don’t any more.

        On the list you cite, emotions is the one thing you choose, even though it doesn’t feel like that right now. I don’t expect you to believe me. I will cite Lisa Feldman Barrett and the book How Emotions are Made and you can decide whether you want to explore or not.

        Either way, peace.

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