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jpreston2005@lemmy.world 1 month agoI don’t know what you’re trying to imply, that I “blindly” swipe on stereotypically attractive straight women (how would one blindly do that, I wonder), or that I am judgemental? It has happened to me 3 different times. Women using pictures of them before serious weight gain. all 3 cases it was over 100lbs difference between pictures and reality.
Also my type is queer/weird, as I am queer and weird.
whoreticulture@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
WOW I did not expect this kind of response lol, I’m just saying that if I see a stereotypically attractive woman, I would read her profile to see if she’s my type because just by appearance she likely wouldn’t be.
So it is about weight gain and not actually straight up catfishing. I feel like there is a difference. I feel like if that happened to me I wouldn’t just leave right away, I’ve made many friendships from dates. If you’re so concerned about weight gain that you’d walk away you should consider straight up asking if the photos are recent.
ObsidianZed@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
Now kiss.
jpreston2005@lemmy.world 1 month ago
From everything you’ve assumed about me, to trying to differentiate how you would act, just screams pick me.
whoreticulture@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
You’re on the defensive for no reason but ok
jpreston2005@lemmy.world 1 month ago
because of your baseless accusations lmao sound like someone straight out of female dating strategy