Comment on How do I stop hating children?

• GentlemanLoser@ttrpg.network ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I have it. The sounds of people eating, especially slurping or crunching, are literally repulsive. I have to have something else to train my focus on or else I’ll get up and bolt.

  Other repetitive sounds trigger it too: people popping gum, chewing ice, clipping fingernails, etc. But not too bad with keyboards and typing.

  source

  • Kolanaki@yiffit.net ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I’m not sure if I have it or I’m just an irritable asshole, but I certainly gave pause when I first read about it because plenty of sounds people make absolutely do feel like a nail being driven into my brain, inducing a feeling of unrepentant anger that is tough to let go of. Though, they’re usually sounds most people also find irritating. Like lip smacking and nostril wheezing. At what point is it not simply a common irritation and it becomes a disorder? 🤔

    source

    • GentlemanLoser@ttrpg.network ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      When it affects your relationships and your life. My wife has a complex now about crunching in front of me and chooses food accordingly, which makes me feel terrible.

      Or when I can’t focus on what my boss is saying because she’s eating almonds while she talks.

      I just try to find coping behaviors and sometimes literally bite my lip to get thru some situations.

      source

      • HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        she’s eating almonds while she talks.

        eating while talking is just rude

        source